Relationship Coach & Hypnotherapist
Love is an inside job.
What if the only change you need occurs within?
The happiness you strive for is yours for the taking.
Change your mind love your life.
You owe it to yourself to try this one last thing before calling it quits on your relationship, don’t you?
I know how you feel – I understand the frustration of feeling alone in your significant relationships and the deep desire for a relationship where you feel complete and loved for who you are; where your emotions and feelings are openly accepted. Imagine how amazing it would feel if you were utterly yourself every step of every day and knew that you would still be loved.
Imagine knowing exactly what to say to spark a healthy loving conversation, the quiet strength that comes from being able to share yourself with your partner and allow him to do the same.
I’m Allison McGinlay-Reiner.
Using my hypnotherapy skills I coach sensitive women who’ve lost their voice and feel invisible on how to fall in love all over again. Head over heels. With themselves. I teach you to ditch co-dependency, people-pleasing and all those other insidious habits that have stolen your power.
My approach is guaranteed to transform all of your relationships and you future.
What if being authentically you is what you’ve been striving for all your life. I teach sensitive, yet courageous women how to transform their relationships by working on their biggest love first. Themselves.
I’m on a mission to teach highly sensitive women who are sick and tired of being sick and tired that life doesn’t have to feel like this. Infact, it’s not meant to.
There is hope of happiness. I promise. Let’s tap into that brave soul of yours, those emotions you have and create something wonderful, the life you’ve been dreaming of.
Read more about my journey here
I’ve been to hell and back running on nothing but my own self will and desperately trying to fit other people’s expectations of me.
I have also been blessed with trying the path of vulnerability and sharing myself in all my perfect imperfection with others. I found acceptance, understanding and connection, which is why I believe we are here.
My journey to becoming a Clinical Hypnotherapist and trainer is anything but conventional, and that's exactly what makes it beautiful. I started my career in London's financial district, analysing risks for ships - quite a leap to where I am today!
But life has a way of steering us toward our true calling, doesn't it?
I’m Allison Reiner, and here is how I arrived in front of you today.
A move overseas became my unexpected catalyst for change, though not in the way I'd imagined. In my mind I’d be the perfect Italian mamma and career woman with a year round tan….. Finding myself, however, in Italy without language skills, friends, job, or support system, I faced a profound sense of isolation. With no career I lost my identity and with it my imagined rights to ask for the life I desired. That’s when playing small really kicked in and resentments reared their ugly little bitter heads. It was during this time that I began to recognise how my way of showing up in life was completely at odds with my core values. I lost confidence but more so I lost self-respect.
I struggled to look myself in the eye, I steered clear of arguments because the criticism cut like knives, so I masked up and pushed down my hurts and needs.
I had always valued honesty yet couldn’t express my honest needs; truth yet couldn’t express my anger and frustration. Life was tough, but the bitterness of going against myself left me feeling wrong, out of step with the world, afraid to express my true desires and feelings.
The wake-up call came through my relationship with my husband - our dysfunctional communication patterns, my desire to leave and my constant battle against the world rather than for myself. But it was the heart-wrenching realisation that I wasn't emotionally equipped to be there for my children (or myself) if I left, that became my wake-up call. That's when I understood - I needed to stop fighting my husband and the world, and start fighting for myself, against the patterns that were holding me back.
That was my surrender and acceptance moment.
Have you identified yours?
Having retrained as an English teacher, I’d discovered something magical - my natural ability to see exactly what each student needed to succeed. This gift of intuitive understanding would later become the cornerstone of my approach to both therapy and teaching.
Through my own journey of transformation, I found my way to hypnotherapy. It changed my life so profoundly that I knew I had to share its power with others. Now, as a recognised practitioner and trainer accredited by UK hypnotherapy governing bodies, I get to do exactly that.
At Harmony360Hypnotherapy, I've had the privilege of guiding countless individuals, particularly spiritually-minded professional women, toward their own transformations. There's nothing quite like witnessing someone step into their full potential, whether they're a client breaking free from limiting patterns or a student discovering their gifts as a therapist.
What I love is combining my teaching expertise with clinical hypnotherapy to train the next generation of practitioners. I bring together technical excellence with intuitive guidance, ensuring each student discovers their unique strengths as a therapist. It's about more than just teaching techniques - it's about nurturing confident, compassionate practitioners who'll create meaningful change in their clients' lives.
When I'm not in session or training others, you'll likely find me exploring some corner of Italy (where I now call home), hanging out with friends, or curled up with a good book. These moments of connection and joy fuel my work and remind me that transformation is as much about embracing life's simple pleasures as it is about personal growth.
My approach is gentle yet powerful, grounded in real-world experience and a deep understanding of human transformation. Whether you're interested in becoming a clinical hypnotherapist or seeking personal transformation, I'd love to be part of your journey.
"Before I started working with Allison I was distraught. My marriage was falling apart and even worse I was falling apart even though I was in counseling. I felt unheard, alone and just so anxious. I couldn’t believe this was happening to me. When I saw Allison’s FB Ad, I thought what the heck? What do I have to lose? So I went to Allison with an open mind and unbelievably so after several sessions I felt at peace. She provided a safe environment for me to be vulnerable and genuinely myself. Listened without being judged - I finally found someone that heard me. Who I am today is not who I was before I worked with Allison. I’m 100x better thank you Allison!"
- EV, USA
Can’t take one more day like this? Don’t!
Transform your heartache into a loving relationship, it’s my job to show you how.
Trying to fix relationships from the outside in leads to frustration and disappointment. You've tried that, and now you’re at the front door, suitcase in hand, ready to walk out.
But wait! What if there IS a solution, what if I can help you turn that all around? I can.
YOU are strong, brave and courageous. You owe it to yourself and your family to change perspective and take control of your happiness and the success of your relationship once and for all, allowing others into your world, rather than trying to change theirs. How else will they get to know the beauty of the real you?
The truth is, your marriage mirrors your relationship with yourself.
What if revealing the "true you" would create connections with your partner and loved ones beyond your wildest dreams?
You can:
Transform communication leaving no room for emotional abuse or mind games.
Connect with your sensitivities.
Harness the power you have within you.
Lose the fear of judgment.
Create a connection with yourself that allows you to radiate inner confidence and love.
Be the woman who knows she is enough and deserves the best.
Allow your partner to know and respect the real YOU, not the you you think the world wants.
I work with women just like you. Helping them reclaim and reveal their authentic selves to the world.
WARNING: Expect the unexpected. Love, respect and appreciation in buckets. This isn’t a journey for the mediocre.
We all want to be loved and appreciated by those around us. We're hard-wired for connection! You’re tired of feeling invisible. Like your needs and desires not being taken into account or met by those closest to you. It’s all give and no take! Why even bother, maybe you’re better off on your own. Imagine life alone where no one can hurt you. OR finding people who’d appreciate you. The real you. Sorry to break it to you, but you’d only find more of the same. No matter how far you ran.
Until you radically change the relationship you have with yourself the same patterns will keep repeating themselves. Working with me will turn the tables on those crippling patterns. My simple one solution approach starts with you and will change your life forever. I’m a registered Clinical Hypnotherapist and professionally trained Coach registered with the GHC.
I’ve been where you are and come out the other side, stronger, happier and better than I could have ever imagined. I know how to fast-track your happiness, it’s a shortcut to relationship success. USING a mix of hypnotherapy and talking therapy to change your relationship with you.
To replace sabotaging beliefs and behaviours with empowering new foundations for your future happiness. Friends and family want you to be happy, they’ll tell you what you want to hear, not what you need to hear.
Working with me you’ll get a bird's eye perspective of your life. The whole picture. Your journey to joy starts when you book your complimentary connection call.
SERVICES
Choosing to Stay, Choosing to Thrive
A 6-Session Hypnotherapy Journey for Women Who've Made the Brave Decision to Stay - For Now
This Is For You If:
You've made the decision to stay (whether for now or indefinitely) and you're tired of feeling guilty about it
You're ready to stop trying to change your partner and start changing your experience
You want to feel empowered rather than trapped by your circumstances or timeline
You're done with resentment and ready for acceptance and peace
You believe you deserve to be happy now, not just when circumstances change
You're willing to take responsibility for your own emotional wellbeing
You refuse to spend years being miserable while you wait for the "right time" to leave
Untangled – Freedom from Co-Dependency
A 6-Session Journey to Freedom From Co-dependency - Being 100% Yourself While Deeply Connected
This Is For You If:
You're tired of basing your life on how you believe other people perceive you
You want to stay in your relationships but reclaim yourself within them
You're ready to set boundaries without guilt or fear of abandonment
You recognize that you've lost touch with who you are when you're constantly adapting to others
You want honest, authentic communication instead of walking on eggshells
You're done seeking validation for your right to have thoughts, feelings, and needs
You believe you can be 100% yourself and deeply connected at the same time
You're willing to do the inner work to transform co-dependent patterns across all your relationships
You want to be able to say yes or no and impose your standards in any relationship, whatever its nature
Healing the Child Within: A Journey Back to Yourself
A 6-Session Journey to Deep Inner Child Healing
This Is For You If:
You're tired of people-pleasing and ready to honor your own needs
You struggle to ask for help or show vulnerability
You feel emotionally distant in relationships, even with people you love
You make decisions based on others' expectations rather than your own desires
You feel quietly resentful, lonely, or unseen despite being surrounded by people
You're ready to heal at the root level, not just manage symptoms
You're open to hypnotherapy and inner work
You're willing to be gentle and compassionate with yourself
Beyond Sobriety: Your Dignified Transformation Journey
6 Intimate 1:1 Sessions Designed for Your Unique Path
This Is For You If:
Wine has become your go-to companion for managing emotions and stress
You maintain a polished exterior while feeling disconnected from your true self
Perfectionism and people-pleasing drive your days, and wine soothes your nights
You're tired of using alcohol to quiet the inner voice that's asking for real change
Your relationships look good on paper, but lack the depth you're craving
You sense there's unresolved pain or patterns beneath the surface, waiting to be healed
"Before I started working with Allison I was distraught. My marriage was falling apart and even worse I was falling apart even though I was in counseling. I felt unheard, alone and just so anxious. I couldn’t believe this was happening to me. When I saw Allison’s FB Ad, I thought what the heck? What do I have to lose? So I went to Allison with an open mind and unbelievably so after several sessions I felt at peace. She provided a safe environment for me to be vulnerable and genuinely myself. Listened without being judged - I finally found someone that heard me. Who I am today is not who I was before I worked with Allison. I’m 100x better thank you Allison!"
- EV, USA
